This is one of those blog posts with unusual beginnings and which, albeit hopefully in a good way, may be read differently by different people. In a nice roundabout way, albeit slightly coincidentally, we’re also celebrating today being ‘Love Your Pet Day’ through the dog-related theme!
Let’s just clarify what ‘the fear’ is before continuing. Basically, ‘the fear’ is a largely 1990s-based phenomenon centring round a particular episode of FRIENDS in which Rachel loses the desire to continue in their current job but, without her acting to resign, lacks the determination to make
the decision to get another job. In this way, ‘the fear’ is similar to the fear of failure that drives you to revise hard for exams or the fear of not being fit enough for a half-marathon which pushes you to go for a run even when you don’t feel like it and, obviously, losing ‘the fear’ to apply full efforts within a job can make a noticeable difference.
Now, naturally, all jobs and employers are different. You can work in the same role at two different places and have completely different experiences to the same extent that you can have two different job titles within the same employer and have polar opposite enjoyment levels. However, for the sake of the rest of this blog, let’s take a really general (and vague) view of this tricky situation for employees and employers alike.